tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9487055.post1742970798460888396..comments2024-03-26T05:56:59.938+11:00Comments on THE PSYCHOLOGIST : JRhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00829082699850674281noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9487055.post-16022716146218021262015-07-16T06:06:08.829+10:002015-07-16T06:06:08.829+10:00She may have written the note herself and is makin...She may have written the note herself and is making out a man wrote it.<br /><br />That note starts off with assurances of adoration, love and adoring compliments, moves through irresponsibility (if only my body and mind would let me), an innocent declaration of only being honest (I'm not going to bull***t you), more over the top compliments, then finishes with the, I'm just being "honest" and "innocent" insult. <br /><br />As a male counsellor well familiar with female fight tactics, I could write such a letter as a demonstrative example. But I don't know any man who would or even could formulate that. Although not as subtle as a more accomplished female would word it, the content is of a nasty female pattern. I suspect she made it less subtle for the sake of publicity and perhaps to try to make it seem masculine (I'm not going to bs you / turned on). Many men get their hearts and heads screwed up by such tactics and are not even aware that someone else is doing it or how. <br /><br />Of course, it is possible a man may have wrote it. There are younger new age bitchy men nowadays, brought up by irritable single mothers, educated (indoctrinated) by female feminist teachers, and who grow into men with an ability to act and speak in that affectionate-spiteful way. <br /><br />Either way, she is playing the game, by seizing the victim/hurt/offended status, which puts her in the right by leftist-feminist standards (except for white males who aren't allowed that status). She's getting the feel-good, I'm the victim so I'm in the right, and the attention, and probably venting some anger too, and using it to try to get more dates. Personally I'd avoid her. <br /><br />'I really enjoyed your company and actually adore you. 'You're cheeky and funny and just the sort of girl I would love to go out with if only my body and mind would let me. But I fear it won't. 'I'm not going to bull***t you... I think you're the prettiest looking girl I've ever met. But my mind gets turned on by someone slimmer.'<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com